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What My Husband Does Around the House.

May 4, 2014 by whitedoe931 Leave a Comment

Because the universe has a wicked sense of humor, my parents and hubs are both out of town this week. I just got a text from A. saying he was on the 27th floor, having a drink, looking over the San Francisco Bay. I repeat: wicked sense of humor. It is also the last week of class … [Read more…]

Posted in: Thoughts Tagged: Adulthood, Domestic, Femininity, Gender, Marriage, Masculinity, Relationships, Work

The Other Side of the Semester

December 13, 2013 by whitedoe931 Leave a Comment

I have no idea how this semester is already over. Wasn’t Halloween last week? Didn’t football season just start? I must have inadvertently gone down a rabbit hole, waited around for a minute, and reemerged three months later. Call me Rip. Seriously. But what a stressful, amazing semester it has been! I’m still not done … [Read more…]

Posted in: Thoughts Tagged: Academia, life, Parenting, School, Teaching

What the Zombie Apocalypse Means For Parents

September 20, 2013 by whitedoe931 Leave a Comment

I totally didn’t expect to end up a sobbing puddle of sobs by the end of this, but so it was. Here’s one of the best, most heart-breaking (warming?) short films I’ve seen in a while. And it’s about zombies. “Cargo”

Posted in: Thoughts Tagged: Children, Love, Parenthood, short film, zombie apocalypse, zombies

Morning Poem: David Kirby’s “Get up, Please”

September 17, 2013 by whitedoe931 Leave a Comment

I came across this poem yesterday and love its meditation on gratitude, on how we show respect and to whom. As Americans, we may taut the value of experience and the need to respect those who have lived long enough to level up in this crazy world, but ours is not a culture of respect. … [Read more…]

Posted in: Thoughts, Words Tagged: Advice, American Culture, David Kirby, Family, Gratitude, Poem, Poetry, Respect

I Would Say “Fuck Cancer,” But I Don’t Think It Deserves Something That Enjoyable

August 23, 2013 by whitedoe931 3 Comments

Cancer has touched the lives of too many people in my life. You could say it’s the creeper neighbor of the medical world, and it needs to stay the hell away from the people I love. A week ago, we found out that Austin’s Uncle Ron has a brain tumor. He’d been having headaches since … [Read more…]

Posted in: Thoughts Tagged: Cancer, Family, life, Love, Mortality

“Be Honest, Be Kind, Be Honorable, Work Hard, and Always Be Awesome.”

August 20, 2013 by whitedoe931 3 Comments

Just checking in for a minute to share my new class motto, courtesy of the awesomest of them all, Mr. Wil Wheaton: “Be Honest, Be Kind, Be Honorable, Work Hard, and Always Be Awesome.” See his post here. This is totally going on my syllabus, in the section on expected behavior. I really want to … [Read more…]

Posted in: Thoughts Tagged: Advice, Awesome, Education, Geek, Inspiration, Nerd, Teacher, Teaching, Wil Wheaton

Putting Pen to Paper

August 7, 2013 by whitedoe931 Leave a Comment
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My mother has impossibly perfect handwriting – small, uniform, and neat. I could never forge her signature on bad report cards. She was an absolute stickler for good handwriting, and when I was a child, my sloppy letters must have irked her supremely.  She’d hover over my shoulder, remonstrating me for my illegible sentences and making me … [Read more…]

Posted in: Thoughts Tagged: ADD, ADHD, composition, drafting, Family, old school, thoughts, Writing

In Which I Give Myself a Talking To…

July 11, 2013 by whitedoe931 2 Comments

My life is not hard. In fact, it’s downright cushy. By about 3:00pm today, though, I had thrown in the towel. Ragged from waking up early with the Beastie, I read all morning for my latest dissertation chapter. When said toddler wouldn’t nap, I tried to force the issue for over an hour, to no … [Read more…]

Posted in: Thoughts Tagged: Children, Family, Motherhood

All of the Reasons This Image Frustrates and Angers Me

July 6, 2013 by whitedoe931 1 Comment
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Can we please stop with the Twilight bashing? It’s feeling a bit warmed over at this point. Sure, Bella and Edward’s relationship is completely unhealthy – he’s a controlling creeper, and she’s a dependent, moping wreck of a female role model. As countless memes attest, pretty much any story is a better love story than Twilight. The books are not … [Read more…]

Posted in: Thoughts Tagged: Books, Domestic Violence, Feminism, Gender, LGBTQ, The Lord of the Rings, Twilight, Violence Against Women, YA Literature

Kids These Days and Their Seedless Watermelons

July 1, 2013 by whitedoe931 4 Comments
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I was cutting up some watermelon this afternoon when a thought struck me: My children will never know watermelons with seeds. Real seeds. The kind from watermelons in the past – those slimy black discs we expertly avoided, spat to the ground, or perhaps even feared would sprout if swallowed. Future generations will never have … [Read more…]

Posted in: Thoughts Tagged: Family, Summer, Watermelon
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